Kiss Me - Is Kissing A Sign of Love?

He says kiss me if you love me. You know kissing usually leads to something bigger. But you don't want to lose him either. Should you kiss him just to keep him?

Well, should you?

If you're anxious to keep your man, you may jump to kissing him if only to show him you love him. In any case, he straightforwardly tells you, kiss me to show you love me. So you oblige him to show you really do love him. But you can be sure there's more to this than his request to be kissed by you. Initially, he may be content with just a kiss. Sometime later he may want a hug along with the kiss.

Then a tongue kiss, a passionate kiss, and thereafter romance. What follows next?

Your guess is as good as mine.

Let's analyze this a bit closely since this challenge is frequently faced by girls.

First, is kissing a sign of love?

The simple and correct answer is NO.

Kissing is definitely not a sign of love but of romantic intimacy. And when romantic intimacy develops between two people, it eventually culminates in sexual activity.

Are you ready for sexual activity with your man?

You are when you're married. You're not if you're still courting and all you have are promises of marriage.

It follows therefore that if you're not married, don't get into the kissing game. You will lose your self control when you do. And you will lose your virginity eventually.

If keeping your virginity until marriage is important to you, if maintaining a high moral standard matters to you, then refrain from starting on the path of kissing when dating.

So when your man says "kiss me to show you love me" or "I don't believe you love me because you refuse to kiss me", don't get panicky because you fear losing him.

The truth is . . . this is cheap blackmail used by men to trick innocent women into falling for them.

A man knows what a kiss will do to you. He knows one passionate kiss can send your senses in a million directions. He knows you will want it again after the first time. And then again and again.

Before long your defenses will collapse to the superior force of the desire for the next level. The hormones in your body will start an unstoppable sequence of reactions. And you will fall flat on your back.

Your man knows this. He knows the power of a simple kiss and wants to start the ball rolling with it.

"Kiss me or I'll leave you".

Believe me, that is cheap blackmail. Don't fall for it.

Honestly, does a man who blackmails you with a kiss me request really love you?

Well, take a second look at the motive behind the request.