It's very easy to let negative things in a relationship overshadow the positive, as is failing to notice the negatives of a person outside of your current relationship.
You may have habituated to your husband's positive qualities.
Try to focus for a few minutes on the positive characteristics of your husband, the reasons you chose to marry.
Discuss with your husband what you are unhappy about within your relationship in order to try and resolve them.
Another option is marriage counseling. There is a myth that refers to this type of therapy as a "last resort".
By this late stage, the couple has all but given up and there is no real point in trying to apply strategies to communicate and heal.
From the moment the relationship gets rocky, it may be time to call in professional help to identify issues.
I hope these suggestions help you with your decision.
Dec 25, 2007 Rating
why not? by: krystal
I know it would be bad but im not happy with him and haven't been for about 3years now...what about my needs?
Dec 23, 2007 Rating
OH MY GOD by: Anonymous
Are u stupid?... dont do such a thing like that..thats bad!!!