Let Me Love You Request - You Are One Step From Falling In Love

He says let me love you. He looks serious. He looks like a nice guy. Should you grant his let me love you request?

Sweetheart, you're one step from falling in love. But before you accept his love, first analyze him. You can fall in love later. But first, analyze him. Falling in love is a beautiful feeling. You see someone and you get this instant conviction he's the right one for you. There is this instant attraction. You just fall in love at first sight.

So the man comes up to you and requests a relationship. He simply says, let me love you.

Okay, maybe he didn't use those exact words. Whatever his line is, the bottom line is that he wants a love relationship.

Your response will be based on whether you already have an attraction for this man or not.

Let's say you already are attracted to him even before he approached you. Now he has taken the first step and actually asked for your love . . . let me love you, he says.

My best piece of advice.

Don't fall head over heels. Don't swallow everything you're fed with. Analyze your man before going neck-deep into the relationship.

How do you analyze a man you're just meeting for the first time?

Simple. Analyze his manners, his courtesy, etiquette.

Believe me, you don't want to be married to a man who do not have manners. He will mess up your life as you know it today.

Here's a quick line of analysis. Do this sweeping analysis before you even think of falling in love.

1. Does he respect women? Or does he treat them like a play thing? You will know from the tone of his voice as he asks you out.

2. Is he proud and arrogant? You will know from the way he keep talking about himself and his achievements. Puffy and arrogant people know nothing but themselves. They are much too important to talk about anything or anyone else but themselves.

3. Does he have a good sense of humor? Try cracking a simple joke.

4. Is he a serious guy? What does he do for a living? Ask him where he works.

5. Is he dependent on his parents? Ask him where he lives.

Hey, this is not a question and answer session. Just part of normal conversion as you introduce yourselves and get to know each other.

Remember he said, let me love you. To grant that request, you must know who exactly you're dealing with. So dig out valuable information from him.

When I meet a person for the first time I ask more than a dozen questions. It gets the relationship to a flying honest start . . . or the relationship gets a knock in the head and stops right there. No need to waste time with a relationship destined to fail. Ask my wife. She got a good dose of my questions the very first day we met. In just one meeting I asked enough questions to last a year. And that was her first attraction to me.

She wanted a man who was forthright, down-to-earth, straight to the point, unambiguous, articulate, and outspoken. And she found it all in me.

After less than one hour of express discussion, she gave me her home address. It was the most exhilarating hour of her life.

It was love at first sight. We became friends immediately. Two weeks later I said, let me love you. And she accepted.

Now let's get back to the point.

When a man comes to you with let me love you request, analyze him right on the spot. Analyze him there and then.

If he does not measure up, don't be obliged to grant his let me love you request.

Falling in love is an exciting experience. Fall in love with the man just right for you.

Okay, so this stranger requesting a love relationship did not pass your honest to truth analysis. Nicely decline a relationship.

Oh, he passed your scrutiny. Well, this is good news. Start a friendship relationship.

But remember . . . this is just the first step. You have only consented to explore the possibility of a relationship.

You still don't completely know your man yet. So you need to learn more about him.

Analyze him some more as you work at building a good foundation for a future love relationship. Use the love quiz, the personality tests, and the love tests in this site.

At some point in this journey, he will say what all men eventually say.

"I love you and I will always love you".

I will always love you. That is what all men eventually say. Some take it as a solem promise and do everything necessary to keep the promise. Some do not.

If you have been a victim of a flirting man who makes endless promises to get a woman to bed and then dump her, you know how painful it is.

Naturally, it will be difficult for you to love again. But you can't live your life alone and in grief over what could have been. That you were jilted before by a playboy doesn't mean you can't find true love.

You can find true love. You can find the man just right for you who will love you forever.

When you do find this love . . . this man . . . do not let your past heartbreak stop you from going ahead. Grab it. Don't let it slip by.

However, be wary.

Don't have anything to do with a man who does not keep his promises.

Love is serious business. Dating and courting is for only one purpose . . . to evaluate your partner's suitability for marriage. As your relationship heats up and you get closer to the marriage zone, be absolutely sure he's everything you want in a man. I will repeat my advice above. Analyze him some more using the love quiz, the personality tests, and the love tests in this site.

Grant his let me love you request and fall in love if your man meets acceptable criteria.

This is your life. Make the most of it.

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