Love Chemistry - The Mysterious Chemistry of Love

Love Chemistry - the Chemistry of Love - is mysterious chemistry. It is mysterious because love happens in ways we do not expect and in patterns difficult to explain.

And that's just the beginning of the mysterious chemistry of love. The mystery of love chemistry goes even further. Here's a classic example.

Sharon is a cultured girl from a decent home. Her father has money enough to buy anything money can buy . . . her father is stinking rich.

Unfortunately, she fell in love with a heroine smoking kid at the university. This kid treats her like dirt but she loves him. She loves him so much that she will do anything he ask of her.

She held on to her love because she believes someday he will grow to love her.

Back home, Peter was dying to have her love.

Peter is a lawyer with class. He is well-mannered, cultured, and the ideal woman's man. Sharon liked him as a friend but she couldn't bring herself to love him.

Peter is prepared to do anything to win Sharon's love but Sharon isn't interested.

Vanessa, on the other hand, loves Peter very much. He is her dream man. But there is a problem. He doesn't give her any special attention.

Peter is nice to her . . . just as he's nice to everyone. But she wants something more.

If only he can love her . . . if only he could see that she's the perfect woman for him. If only he would stop running after that arrogant girl called Sharon.

However, there's good news. Vanessa isn't without an admirer.

Frank is passionately in love with Vanessa. It would be a dream come true if she agrees to marry him.

She's such a sweet girl . . . eloquent, elegant, charming. She would match him like white on rice.

Unfortunately, she says her heart is with someone else. She says she's not engaged but she soon will . . . and not with him.

Can you feel the dilemma?

This is love chemistry, the chemistry of love. And it is mysterious chemistry.

This is the mysterious chemistry of love. This is love chemistry blindfolding its prey. And it can be devastating.

Love chemistry happens by accident. You're suddenly in love. And thereafter, nothing else matters.

when you fall in love the emotions can be so strong that you're prepared to do anything to keep that love.

Is anything wrong with that?

No and Yes.

No because love is a wonderful feeling. And love makes living pleasurable.

Yes because your life can be ruined if you fall in love blindly. This is why love chemistry is sometimes unfair.

What can you do about love chemistry? What can you do about the mysterious chemistry of love?

First, be in the right places with the right people. You're most likely to fall in love with someone you meet often. Occasionally people fall in love at first sight. And that's understandable.

Whatever the case, if you're always in right company, you're likely to fall in love with someone who will be right for you.

Second, learn to match love with reality.

It is true that when love chemistry takes over, it is difficult to see beyond the tip of your nose.

However, if you have developed the culture of being realistic over time, you will be able to tell when a love relationship is an impossible relationship.

Third, learn to listen with an open mind.

When people criticize your lover, it's not always because they're jealous. Sometimes they may see what you cannot see. So listen and investigate their fears. That could save your life.

Love chemistry . . . the mysterious chemistry of love . . . will yet hold more people captive.

More and more people will still fall in love blindly. But don't let it be you.

When love chemistry catches up with you . . . when you finally fall in love . . . keep both eyes open. Be sure it is true love and not dangerous infatuation.

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