Love Is A Battlefield - Prepare Yourself

Love is a battlefield. Only lovers who are prepared to give up everything for love find love and keep it.

It's so easy to fall in love. You meet somebody today, within a few hours you're into each other. Within a few days you're madly in love.

Naturally you're tempted to ask . . . why do many love relationships hit the rocks even before they begin?

The simple reason is this . . . many people falling in love fail to recognize that love is a battlefield.

What does that mean?

It simply means that love is not a bed of roses.

When two people fall in love, it usually happens on a good day . . . a day when they both are at their best. Occasionally, it happens on a bad day . . . a day when either or both of them is facing a challenge or dilemma.

When you fall in love on a good day, the term "love is a battlefield" may not mean much to you.

It's a good day, remember?

You run into this girl one bright afternoon with all the conditions right and you fall in love. On that day she looks like an angel straight from heaven.

You probably wouldn't pause for a moment and ask, "Suppose she's not Miss Right?"

As far as you're concerned, you've found the woman of your dreams and that's all you care about. Life couldn't be better.

For example, her anger at someone taking advantage of a less privileged person may establish her with you as someone who stand for justice and fair play.

You may admire her for that. Soon that admiration can grow into love.

But when you begin to spend more time together, her uncontrolled temper may begin to get on your nerves. It may get to a point where you can't take it anymore.

Let's summarize this.

Love is a battlefield because not all your expectations for your love relationship will come true.