Love Or Money - Is Your Relationship Based On Love Or Money?Love or money, what drives your relationship? Is your relationship based on love or money?Wait. Why should you care? You should care because your decision can have a profound effect on what happens to you in the relationship. Here's a fact about relationships. Everyone who gets into a love relationship with a member of the opposite sex wants to live happily ever after. We all want relationships without sad moments, relationships filled with a lot of happiness, peace, emotional security, and plenty of love. Guess what.
We all also want some measure of financial security. In fact, it is that yearning for financial security that often raises the question, "should I go for love or money?" Let's take a case study to drive the point home. Mitchelle and Bobby were great friends right from their undergraduate days in a first generation University. They met in medical school and the relationship was like heaven sent. Somewhere along the line they fell in love and promised to get married when they graduate and things stabilized financially. After graduating, each were posted to separate parts of the city for their house jobs. Nevertheless, the relationship continued to blossom. Somewhere in her practice, Mitchelle met a David, a rich businessman who was 14 years older than her. He was well-established, rich, caring, and mature. In fact, he was everything that Bobby was not. Best of all, he was head-over-heels in love with her. And he actually asked her to marry him. Mitchelle was in a dilemma. He loved bobby very much and really wanted to go ahead with the relationship. But closure for their relationship was still far away. And Bobby can sometimes be too playful, immature, and heady. And the financial challenges were substantial. They have not even been able to agree on a date for their wedding. Yeah, they had a lot of money problems. To cut a long story short, Mitchelle decided to break up with Bobby and go with David. Think about it. Did Mitchelle go for love or money? Was her decision to drop Bobby and choose David driven by David's maturity or by the size of his pocket? I will leave you to decide that. Money Or Love - Where Do You Stand?When you're in a love relationship and you and your partner are financially challenged, sooner or letter you will be faced with the question, "should I be guided by love or money?"This dilemma often rears its head when someone with more cash to offer crosses your path. And this can happen with men or women. For example, a man who has promised to marry a girl may have his love challenged if a wealthy educated single woman suddenly takes a serious interest in him. Sooner or later, he may be tempted to compare this well-educated, wealthy, spotless girl with his girlfriend whom he may now consider tacky, 'local', narrow-minded and poor. Why does money have such powerful impact on people? Why are people in a love relationship often caught between money or love when challenged by te presence of a wealthier person? It's because "money answereth all things". If you doubt that popular statement, take a look around you and shine the spotlight on a husband who recently lost his lucrative job or who lost his job awhile back and has been unable to secure another. You will notice that the now jobless man may . . . Guess what. In a lot of cases, that lack of paid employment may result in the wife leaving her husband. Bottom line. You need money to oil the wheel of love especially if you're a man and husband. So, is it love or money? "Yes, I choose love. Yes, I love you. But I need money to pay the bills!" That is a woman talking. Believe me, your wife will not be smiling at you when the landlord throws your stuff out because you couldn't pay the rent. My advice? If you're a man, don't get married until you feel capable enough to take care of a woman emotionally and financially. Otherwise, you will be in serious trouble. If you're a woman, don't be content with a man who has a paid job. Job security is a thing of the past. No jobs are secure anymore. Instead, be actively interested in a man who loves you and who has potentials to create wealth, as an employee and as a self-made wealth creator. The man you're interested in should get off his lazy back-side and start empower himself to generate income outside of his paid job, if he has one. Why is this important? Simple reason . . . when there is no money in the family, your love will be seriously challenged. What happens then? He may then accuse you of planning to leave him because his money has dried out. And you will get mad at him because he thinks you married him for his money when you had marriage offers from guys richer than him but chose him for love. What next? He may get pissed off because he thinks you're RUDE for talking back at him. And you're get even madder and tell him he's your babe and you can talk to him anyway you damn please. Before you know it, you may stop talking to each other. You may begin to sleep in different rooms. And when he's not taking steps to be nicer to you, you may move out of the house. Before your parents wonder what happened to your love, he may be filling for divorce. Money or the lack of it, has a way of causing marital problems that start as a mouse hill but then grow into a mountain if not properly managed. Now I will ask you again, "Will you marry for love or money?" It's your choice. But remember, the decision you make has advantages and disadvantages. I personally stand for love because love is the greatest gift an individual can have. However, since lack of money has a way of messing up a beautiful love relationship, at least discuss family finances and options available with your future partner before finalizing marriage discussions. One final question: Are you for love or money? Make your choice! P.S: We offer a FREE home business opportunity that empowers men and women to earn money at home. Fill the signup form below if you would like to earn $1000 or more from home. You will receive a free business web site when you do. P.P.S: This home business opportunity is open to people in the U.S., UK, Canada, Nigeria, Germany, Ghana, Kenya, and over 50 other countries. P.P.P.S: We need the information below to set up your FREE business web site. Please be accurate. 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