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secrets . . . really dirty secrets. When either party finds out about the others secrets from external sources, the innocent party feel cheated. There is usually a feeling of distrust even though the incident happened way before they met. Bottom line. You need to know more about your man before you rush to the altar with him. The issue here is not that your man has secrets. Nor is the focus the fact that he did some really bad things in the past. What he has done in the past is in the past. But you need to know. He needs to come clean with you. Why is that necessary? It establishes a feeling of trust. You know you can trust him. He knows he can trust you. The sooner you hear about his past and his plans for the future, the better for you. One of two things can happen after you learn of his grievous crimes. 1. You may terminate the relationship if you think you cannot live with the shame of being married to a criminal or 2. You may carry on the relationship and love him even more for trusting you enough to talk about the skeleton in his cupboard. Either way, you are happier. Love quiz exposes the ugly secretsThe truth is . . . most people don't feel comfortable talking about their bad side. Bad actions, crimes, misdemeanor, bad habits . . . and anything that portrays someone is less than civilized are often not natural subjects for discussion. But you need to know your man in and out. You need to be sure he's the right man for you. How do you accomplish this? Use this love quiz. This relationship quiz essentially deals with issues relating to your personal everyday relationship with your man. It covers . . . When you get married to a man, you will be living with him and dealing with real issues. All the euphoria and fantasy will be gone. You will be face to face with his person - his attitude, his likes and dislikes, his temper. Therefore, take this love quiz seriously. It could save your life. Now let's get started. Love quiz #1 Personal relationship with your man Does he respect you? Well, there are several ways to find out. Love quiz #2 The trust question. Love quiz #3 Domestic values. The home front has its challenges. Consider this. Love quiz #4 His attitudes. Your attitude determines your altitude. Love quiz #5 Health matters. Health they say is wealth. So . . . Love quiz #6 Bad habits. Bad habits can ruin everything you've worked hard to build. So . . . Love quiz #7
This list is by no means endless. It is just a guide. Add as many things to this list as you should. Everyone has some peculiar need. Customize this list to suit your own peculiar situation or requirement. The important thing is this. You need to know as much as possible about the man you are engaged to. You need to objectively assess the potential for success of the love relationship. If you honestly believe you cannot live with his attitude or poor standard of morality, do not pretend you can. Eventually you will still have to pack it up even if you succeed in getting married to him. At that time, a breakup will be even more painful. So be wary. When a man tells you, "I love and I will always love you" . . . don't take it hook line and sinker. Evaluate the love. Analyze his person. Use the relationship quiz . . . the love quiz above to analyze your man. If your intuition says the relationship won't work, then it probably won't work. 12 Ways To Win A Man's Heart Book Store - Get Love Books To Enrich Your Relationship Back To Home Page From Love Quiz
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