Make Him Want You Desperately

I have like 8 years of dating experience, of which consists of 12 guys. yeah, that is quite a number.

To be frank, some of them, well i double time, triple time. but as we all know, dating isnt confined to ... say for couples. no, its like fun, getting to know more people kinda thing.

so yeah, i didnt get the guy i truly liked, probably i freaked out or something, but i did get the guys i target. kinda skill you'd need practice on.

so first, of course, you need some eye contact. like duh, if you're too shy for eye contact, you are so undeserving of true happiness. its the 21st century,girl...plucker up!

so yeah, after that approach and talk to him. it could be like "Hi, im who and who, from where, where are you from?..." or like "i noticed you from over there, you seemed lost, may i help you" etc etc...

also remember to smile like you are sincere, and have eye contact. always have eye contact, about 2 to 3 secs. more, he'll probably run like a startled fawn.

most of my guys are either in the same school or the same camp, so also always remember that you need constant contact.

follow up after that and always smile like you are friendly. acting silly helps too. if u know that he's interested in you..try the pulling away a lil method.

if he approaches you, say "hey, u look familar..u are that guy...that that..." wait for him to remind you (but of cus u know his name right?)

this is to prolong eye contact to have more secs with him and also make sure that you are not tooooo available. flirt a lil..and do some research..like on facebook and friendster etc. make sure that he's single.

next, when you know that you'd be around him, be sure to look your best. if possible, look the best compared to all the ladies in the room. it always work for me. since i not utterly deformed, that is easily attainable for me.

hey, a guy is that superficial, he'd always look on the surface at first. who doesnt? so dont look like a vixen, just enough makeup to catch the light. hi light your best features.

i'd do my eyes. just a lil mascara for me..and im all set. some concealer and whoala..im done. you wouldnt want a guy who loves bitches with faces they could slap and the powder comes off. keep it light and simple. and thereafter, sms and call him.

ask him random stuff ... like what i did once was to sms this cute guy to remember to take an umbrella as it was raining. (well, i stay in singapore so its relatively easy to predict the weather) or if he's in my class, i'll act dumb and ask him to tutor me (that worked for at least 8 guys....they like to think that they are superior..ha! but be sure you know ur stuff. needless to say, i beat them hands down. so yeah...build from there.

also very important ... be a joke.

yeah, no kidding, make them laugh. sure you have ugly teeth, but nothing beats a hearty laughter. it keeps your rs going too.

i have 1, which i have been going out with for 7 years. can you believe that? and ya, im only 19 btw.

so yeps ... thats something you can consider...or if any more bright ideas....do share!