Male Domination - Tyrant Husbands, Dictator Husbands Repent. Give Your Wife A Life.

The term male domination paints a picture of dictatorship and tyranny. The tears of oppressed women everywhere in the world cry out for justice and fair play.

The result?

Battered wives.

This doctrine of dogmatic submission is the silent belief responsible for many abusive relationships.

Dictator husbands treat their wives as mere tools created to satisfy their whims. The dictator husband physically or emotionally abuses his wife if she has a contrary opinion or demand to be respected.

Tyrant husbands misunderstand male headship to mean bossy leadership and total control.

Is this right?

The simple answer is . . . NO.

Yes, the bible did say, "the head of the woman is the man". But this does not mean the man should be a tyrant husband or a dictator husband.

For example, almost every culture and people accept the man as the head of the family. These local people do not necessarily believe the bible. But the bible teaching that the man is head is right there in their culture.

Bottom line.

The man has been appointed as the head of the family.

Congratulations on your appointment.

But what is this headship about?

Many men understand this to mean that the woman in a love relationship with them is born to serve them. She is a "yes woman" who MUST do whatever they say. In effect, they become dictator husbands.

This marks the inglorious birth of male domination.

Once again I ask . . . Is this right?

No.

It is true that the man is the head. But that headship must be exercise with love, consideration, and empathy.

Women were not created to serve the interest of men.

After God created Adam, God said, "It is not good for the man to continue by himself. I will make a helper for him as a complement".

The message is simple and straightforward. The woman was created to complement the man".

This means that the woman is the missing part of the man . . . the half that makes the first half whole.

Therefore when a woman finds her other half and gets married, she becomes complete. Her partner also becomes complete. Then the two become one in mind and spirit.

There is no room for male domination and dictatorship here.

The man is the other half of the woman. He is to love her as he loves himself. And since he does not batter himself, he should not batter his wife.

This is pure, simple, and straightforward.

But what about the leadership question?

There's nothing wrong with that.

In any organization, someone has to be the head . . . someone has to call the shots.

In this case, the man has been appointed to do this. He has been appointed the leader by God himself.

The woman could also have been appointed the head. But it makes sense to give the leadership to the man since he was created first. He is older, sort of.

The family leadership position is a huge responsibility. And this responsibility must be handled with the utmost sense of care and maturity.

Dictator husbands . . . repent. Give your wife a life.

It is the duty of your wife to respect you. And she will. But then, you know respect is earned.

You are the leader, yes. But it's easier to respect you if you earn the respect.

And remember . . . respect is reciprocal.

You want your wife to respect you? Respect her too.

One last thing.

I have said this before. But I will say it again here.

Give your wife a life

Your wife is not you.

Your wife has a life of her own. And believe me . . . she cannot be you. That is why she's a complement in the first place.

She is created differently. She grew up differently. She has a different perspective. She cannot be like you.

So why are you partners?

Simple. You complement each other.

You are together because you complement each other. You were draw to her because she had something you desired . . . something missing in you.

Now that you've got her, why do you want her to be you? Why do you want to use the myopic concept of male domination to ruin your love?

It's crazy, isn't it?

Tyrant husbands . . . dictator husbands . . . give your wives a life.

Throw away all traces of male domination. Cast out the demon of male domination.

Give your wife a life.

Let her be herself. Let her use her creativity. Let her expound her ingenuity. Let her be different. Let her reach her full potential.

Wherever her ingenuity takes her, someone will ask, "who is her husband?"

On that day of glory, as you watch her adorned in glowing colors, you will be proud to be called her husband.

Love is beautiful. I know that from experience.

Love your wife. Make her a true partner. Let her 100 percent into your heart. Discard male domination beliefs and practices.

Treat your wife with consideration, warmth, and empathy. Truly love her.

Live happily together forever in each other's arms.

There's nothing better.

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