Married Dating - Is Married Flirting For You?

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Married Dating - Is Married Flirting For You?

Married dating has become pretty popular. Many sites promote married flirting as harmless fun. They call it discreet affair. Is married dating for you?

That is a question you should honestly evaluate.

Why?

Simply put, extramarital dating can ruin what you already have. It can jeopardize your cherished love relationship with your mate. It can destroy life as you know it today.

Isn't this just some exaggeration to stop you from having the fun of your life?

Perhaps it is. Perhaps it's not.

Well, there are two sides to the story.

First, promoters of married flirting tell you that married dating is a cool way to relieve stress. Why see the same face and hear the same voice all the time, they ask? Why not get some fresh air for a change?

Some people compare commitment to one partner as being stuck with one type of food for life. Why eat just rice all your life when there are varieties of food to make your soul rejoice?

They compare your wife to rice - a boring plate of rice eaten over and over again. And they say the other women outside to whom you're not married are the icing on a tantalizing cake.

One site offering married dating service says its married flirting service is for curious people having fun. Another site promises to make you, the married man, a flirting expert so you can seduce the opposite sex and be appreciated.

Sounds promising, right?

On the other hand, I say you're on the path to self-destruction when you engage in married flirting.

Am I not being over-righteous? Is this not some old-fashion preaching?

I assure you it's not.

Think about it. Is married dating really worth the trouble?

Let's get realistic. You know something is worth doing if the advantages outweigh the risks, right?

Well, then, let's take a critical look at the advantages of married dating and then compare this with the disadvantages. That way you can make an informed decision as to the worth of married flirting.

Extramarital dating . . .

Connects you to new people

Has potential to expand your horizon

Gives you a feeling of freedom . . . the kind of freedom bachelors enjoy

You may call the above advantages.

Now for the disadvantages.

Extramarital dating starts as an innocent affair but can quickly degenerate into sexual encounter

The women you meet during extramarital dating are not seeking to add value to your life. They want a relationship even though they know you're married. That tells you they're of low moral character

Any promise of expanding your horizon is self deceit as a woman who can date a married man more often than not lacks commitment to a relationship

Your spouse will not take your extramarital affair as a legitimate means of having fun. You desire unalloyed commitment from your mate. And so does your mate.

Married dating will destroy your marriage

Any fun you may have during your extramarital encounters will quickly turn in sorrow as you watch your mate leave for a more truth worthy partner

Your partner's departure may leave a wound difficult to heal

So, is married dating for you? Will it make you a happier man? Will it enrich your marriage?

Obviously, all of the questions above have just one answer. A bold NO.

Irrespective of what promoters of married dating say, married flirting is unproductive. It is destructive.

Married dating will destroy your marriage.

There is no such thing as discreet affair. An affair is an affair. And when your mate finds out, she will never be able to trust you again. It may or may not result in divorce. But the pain will not go away for a long long time.

If for any reason you doubt what I say, ask history.

History will tell you that you're playing with fire when you toil with married flirting.

If you love your mate, you will stay with her. Be committed to her and her alone. Do not look outside at another woman. Do not be fooled by propaganda of miscreants promising you unbridled fun.

When you have extramarital affair, your partner will eventually find out. Nothing stays hidden forever. Even before she finds out, you will be caught in a web of guilt that will mar your happiness.

I watched on TV as three men who had each cheated on their wives narrated how they each fell for the smooth talk of women they felt appreciated them more than their wives did. As they narrated their experience, tears rolled down their eyes.

They were crying on national TV!

That's what married dating will do to you.

Married dating will embarrass you and make you an object of ridicule. And worst of all, you will lose that which you cherish most . . . your wife.

Stick with your partner.

Married flirting is deadly. Don't even think of it.

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