Mature Woman - Do You Need A Mature Wife?

A mature woman is really the woman you need. But like most people, you may not yet realize the value of a mature wife. Why do you need a mature woman anyway?

Why do many men searching for a marriage partner look out for school girls, college girls, or young girls in their early twenties instead of a mature woman?

To tell you the truth . . . young girls have a strong sense of fun.

Young girls are just graduating from the teenage years with no care in the world. They love play. They love parties. They love shows. They love cinemas. They are not burdened with planning and saving for the future.

This is not to say all young women are playful and short-sighted. In fact, there is what is called mature minor . . . young men and women who have the maturity level of adults, a maturity level much higher than their age.

However, the majority of young women cannot be rightly called mature minor.

Generally, younger women are on the fun loving side whereas a mature woman is more on the serious-minded side.

A mature wife lives for her husband and her kids. A mature wife plans for the future. She's ever concerned about matching expenses to value.

The concerns that plague a mature woman and hence, fires her drive and determination is far far different from those of a teenage girl.

I was privileged to watch a popular talk show where a father came on air with his wife and his two teenage kids, a boy and a girl.

The father's concern was his children's spending habit. They each had a credit card to themselves and bought virtually anything they wanted. The girl would go out with her friends and buy everyone of them lunch. Many of her friends lived off her.

To make matters worse, they had no credit card limit placed on their cards.

Would you call her a mature woman? Certainly not. If you agree that she's an immature girl now, do you think she's likely to become a mature wife soonest?

Consider another case.

Just before the family mentioned above came on screen, a couple living far above their income were interviewed. Their marriage was at the brink of collapse because the wife was deep into debt.

The wife was a compulsive spender and nothing her husband said could deter her. She admitted she started accumulating debt right before they got married. Her wedding attire was the most expensive she could lay her hands on.

On network TV, the husband announced he was quitting because his wife was on the verge of ruining him. You could see the sadness in his eyes. He was a tortured husband.

Most men just don't get it. So let me make this clear.

An immature woman will ruin you . . . eventually. Yes, you may enjoy the fun of been in the parties and cinemas together. You may have great fun at the start when you have a lot of cash to spend.

But what happens when you're not as financially capable as you were at the start of the relationship? Would she still be willing to stay? Would she be willing to ride the tough times with you? By the way, why would you want to marry a woman who will outspend your bank account? Why not marry a mature wife instead?

Bottom line.

Marry a mature wife. A mature wife will make your home a haven of joy, peace, prosperity, and happiness.

A mature woman will invest in what's worthwhile and you will be the one who ultimately benefits.

This does not rule out marrying a young girl, even a college girl yet to graduate.

A young girl is okay if she's a mature woman. Maturity comes with age. But age alone does not confer maturity on any woman. Maturity comes from training and exposure. So a pretty young girl can be very mature . . . much more mature than her age.

Marry a mature woman.

You will worry less. You will be a happier man.

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