My Boyfriend Is Down. What Do I Do?

by Jan
(Riverview, MI)

My boyfriend recently went through a horendous divorce. We have a long distance relationship. He calls me faithfully every morning and evening.

He tells me recently he's depressed. He hasn't talked as much about coming up to see me.

I told him I booked a flight to come and see him and he didn't really say anything about it. I think he said, "oh." Yet when I asked him he said he still loves me.

But he doesn't tell me that or that he misses me. I told him I need to hear it sometimes. I don't know what to do.

I suggested anti-depressants and he said no, because he takes enough medicine for his heart.

What should I do?

He said he still cares but I am not sure if I'm just someone to talk to. Please let me know what you think.

Thanks. Jan