My Ex Boyfriend, What the Heck?

I dated this guy for 4yrs. 12yrs later he calls me out of the blue. I am now married, have been for 10 yrs.

Anyways, my ex and I have been talking, and just as quick as he came back into my life, he has walked out. No reason why, now when I see him around he turns the other way as if to ignore me.

In the 2 years we've been talking he has done this twice, no phone call, no text. Why would he do this?

I thought things where great, we'd laugh, & talk, thought he was a friend.

He is a 41yr old man ... enough of the kid games. I guess im just looking for an answer. Anyone think why he would do this?

Reply By Samson, True Love Advisor

Perhaps he does it to get you thinking about him or desire him even more. Or maybe he does it because he doesn't want his relationship with you to affect your marriage.

He is actually in a better position to tell you why he does this.

However, I will say this.

Cultivating an ongoing relationship with your ex boyfriend is not a great thing to do. Husbands don't like it when they hear this kind of stories. It easily gets them suspicious. And that kind of suspicion does not help a marriage.