Tell her that you want to spend the rest of your life with her...
Oct 18, 2007
Does She Still Love You? by: Samson Itoje
It's obvious from your message above that you still love her . . . you're still strongly attached to her.
But does she still love you?
It's clear from your comments that she's caught between loving you and the other guy. Unfortunately, she prefers the other guy to you. It's painful to hear that kind of thing from the love of your life.
But does she really mean it?
If she does, and she's already having an affair with her colleague, then you have to choose between giving her a break and waiting until her senses clear or accepting the loss and moving on with your life.
You sound like you want to wait until she comes around. But how long do you have to wait? Suppose she doesn't come around?
These are questions you have to ponder over.
Bottom line.
Be realistic. Don't suffer unnecessary. If she's made up her mind to leave you and she has told you so, perhaps it will be best to let her go and start over again.
Yes, it will hurt you. But in the long run, you stand to benefit.
