My husband Had An affair. He Confessed. How Do I Get Over It?

by daisy
(jersey)

my boyfriend and i have been together now going on five years. we have three beautiful children together.

In the past 5 years we've had our ups and downs and a couple of break ups even (all of which he did the breaking) about a little over a year ago, shortly after the birth of our daughter, he confessed to cheating.

Needless to say its been hard. i love him i know that, hes apologized and ended the other relationships (yes, it was more than one other woman at the same time).

He says he loves me wants to be with me and repair our relationship. Here's the problem: im stuck. i cant get over the hurt, the ugly, hes been the perfect guy over this past year so logically i know i should trust him more than i do but my heart wont allow it.

im not over this yet and its seriously affecting other aspects of our relationship especially in the bedroom. my sex drive is non existent and his is stuck on overdrive. help please.

we love each other and want to be together this much im positive about, so please im only seeking advice on how to fix things. no dump him advice, thanks.