My Husband Wants Us To Have Sex Twice A Day And Gives Me Multiple Orgasm. Is That Too Much?

by sheila
(montreal)

My husband has strong sex drive. He insists on having sex with me twice a day, early in the morning and when he gets back from work, late in the evening.

In case you're wondering, we have been married five years and have three kids.

It's not that I have a problem with making love to him, but I just don't have the same level of sex drive he has.

In fact, 98% of the time we make love, it is initiated by him. He got really mad when I asked him if we could have the marriage without the sex.

Those times when I'm not really in the mood, he will sweet-talk me and go on and on until I get 'horny' and my body yields to the flatter and romantic talk. He literally takes me to the stars. At times I feel like a girl on her first date with a guy who's trying hard to win her heart.

To be honest, I'm not complaining because the sex is good (many times I get multiple orgasm and he takes me to planet 7 with penetration from all angles). I'm just wondering if having sex twice a day and almost everyday is too much.

Secondly, how do I show more interest in sex and actually initiate it more often so I don't give the impression that I am not interested in making love to my husband?

Thanks for reading my story.


Reply By Samson, True Love Advisor

You still have sex twice a day even after five years of marriage and three kids?

Guess what. You're fortunate.

Why do I say that?

The simple reason is that many couples lose their sex drive for each other after several years of being married and a number of kids. This does not mean they don't have sex drive for people outside the marriage.

In fact, many men begin to flirt after several years of being married. They see their wives everyday and desire that which they do not have access to everyday . . . the sweet sixteen outside that has shapely legs and flat stomach.

Bottom line.

You are in a wonderful position.

You see, sex is the only thing that connects a man to a woman like nothing else does. It is during sexual intercourse that your bodies really merge and two become one. And it is a special deep connection. That is why many marriages breakup after one party commits adultery because the sexual connection is so deep that nothing stays the same after you give it away to someone other than your partner.

Sex is the secret bond, the less talked about connector between a man and his wife. So if your husband is hungry to keep that connector connected multiple times a day, then you're in a privileged relationship.

If you look closely, you will find that millions of women are not happy with their sex lives because their husbands don't look at them with desire anymore. And so sex with their husbands is rare.

My advice?

Cherish your sex life, value it. And don't let it slip.

To answer your question, sex is never too much between a husband and his wife. In fact, sex is one thing that oils the engines of love between a man and his wife.

How can you reciprocate?

It's pretty easy.

Just develop the habit of kissing your husband deeply. Usually, deep kissing inspires the desire for touching and romance. And then sex follows naturally.