Newly Weds lost the flame in the bedroom

by Polly
(South Africa)

We've been married for 3 months, my husband was sexually active prior to our wedding, I was a virgin.

He has said that he feels despondent about our sex life. I come from a conservative background, find it hard to tell him I want him, or I find him sexy.

I definitely feel it, and have told him this. He says he feels that I am unresponsive in the bedroom. I have tried to be more what he would like, and feel that I am trying a little. We have not made love for 1 month now, and he makes no advances on me.

I am quite concerned about this. I know it's very important for a man to feel respected and honoured. Please advise!!!