The Perfect Girl - Is There Such Thing As A Perfect Woman?
The perfect girl - that is what all men wish to have. But does a perfect woman exist?
Isn't it just a fantasy to think any girl is a perfect girl?
To put your mind at rest . . .
Yes, you can find a perfect woman. My wife is a good example. She's just perfect for me.
Don't get me wrong.
Perfection here is not about absence of faults. Of course, we all have our weak points. You have
your area of weakness, I have mine. And so does every woman.
Therefore, expecting perfection in the absolute sense of the word is unrealistic.
However, you can find a perfect girl to spend your life with just as I've done. My wife perfectly
complements me. That is why we work so well together.
My wife's younger sisters have always been afraid of marriage. All they have heard of were stories
of husband beating up wife and marital disunity and unhappiness. Hence, they made up their minds
that marriage was not for them.
However, after I married my wife and they saw the way we blended like brother and sister, they
began to have second thoughts. On one occassion one of them asked me, "how did you two find
Yeah, how did we find each other?
First, I defined what I wanted in the perfect woman. And then evaluated the women I met in my
interactions on the basis of that criteria.
I'm a simple person. Hence, my list was pretty simple.
Here's my simple list.
This is my picture of the perfect girl.
She must Love God. She must have the fear of God and love spiritual things
She must love me with her whole heart. There must be no one else in her life but me
She should be open to strangers. I will know she treats strangers well the way she treats
me on our first meeting
She should come from a responsible family. Her family must be closely knit and united. That
will assure me she knows what love means and is likely to be able to replicate that same love and
unity in our family.
She should be simple minded not flamboyant or arrogant
She should have a good sense of humor
She should have good personal hygiene
She should look presentable. I should be proud to walk the street with her hand in hand
She should be respectful and level-headed
She should love children
She should know how to manage a home. When you get married, you actually are building a
She must be forgiving. She should let things pass without a fuss. I have a strong dislike for angry
and unforgiving people.
That was my simple list. It took care of the basics. Everything else was a bonus . . . a pleasant
I used the list above in my search for the perfect woman.
My aunt introduced a lady to me once. She was well read and somehow spiritual. But she was cold and
closed to strangers. She was even closed to me the day we met.
I dismissed her. I'm a serious man. I didn't want to waste her time or mine.
When I met my wife, I knew instantly she was the perfect woman for me. Her greeting was warm
even though we have never met before. That impressed me.
Her smile was golden, her figure stunning, her looks captivating, and her roll-on . . . her roll-on was
I have found the perfect girl!
My wife and I blend seamlessly. Our good example has prompted her sisters to give a second thought
to marriage. "Marriage isn't that bad afterall", they seem to have concluded.
If you want to be married and be happy with yourself and your wife, marry the perfect woman for you.
This means that the woman you choose to marry must be compatible with you. She must complement
you. If she does not, you will have serious problems.
When you are courting your future partner, take note of her attitudes. Can you stand her six months,
one year, five years, fifteen years, twenty years? How long will your relationship last if you were to
Go for the long haul. Go for the perfect woman.
Love is a beautiful feeling. Falling in love is . . . oh, how sweet.
Nevertheless, your excitement won't last if you are stuck with a woman who is incompatible with you.
Be patient. You won't find the perfect girl in one day. Keep searching. Nothing good comes easy.
When you finally find the perfect woman for you, you will appreciate that it was worth the wait.
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