Relationship Rescue - Should You Rescue Your Relationship When There Is Crisis?
Relationship rescue is an attempt to save your love relationship from collapse. Usually,
one party may be eager to resolve the issues why the other may feel they should break up.
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But why bother about relationship rescue? Why seek to rescue your relationship? Why not
just find someone new and start all over again?
Actually, there are some advantages in starting all over again.
When you find a new love, there's usually this rush, this excitement at finding someone
new.
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She may be more beautiful than your current partner
She may be more educated
She may be more humorous and outgoing
She may come from a wealthier family
She may be more respectful
She may be more sexy
She may have everything you miss in your current partner . . . and more
So, there is some incentive to break up and go after your newfound love. Who knows, you
may even be happier.
The temptation to jump ship is sweetened even more by the enticing maneuvers of the other
woman.
She may give you more attention than your partner does
She may be more open to suggestions
She may be all over you
She may love you with all she's got even though she knows you're married
She may desire you even more than your current partner and
She may give herself to you FREE . . . no obligations
In view of the tantalizing offer from this other women, why bother to rescue your love?
Why be concerned about relationship rescue? Why waste your precious time trying to
rescue your relationship . . . a relationship that already has many challenges?
I'll tell you why.
First, you're under obligation to stick with your mate.
How?
On your wedding day, you vowed to love her and to stick with her and cherish her for
the rest of her life.
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When you made that vow or promise, you were of sound mind and body. And you knew beforehand
that there's no love relationship without problems.
You knew there would be problems, challenges, tough times, disagreements . . . and
everything else that happens when two people from diverse backgrounds live together
under same roof in a love relationship.
You knew. But you promised to love her whatever those challenges were.
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You promised to be understanding and caring
You promised to love her in good and bad times
You promised to be there when all else fails
You promised to be faithful to her
Therefore, you're under obligation to fulfill your promise.
Be true to yourself. Be true to your words. Keep your promise.
Second, all that glitters isn't gold. That other woman outside that seem so perfect has
her own shortcomings. You won't see them until you're neck-deep in a relationship with
her. Then you may discover she's actually worse than your mate.
Relationship rescue is a must. Relationship rescue is non-negotiable.
If you have problems in your love relationship, don't think of jumping ship. Think in terms
of saving your love . . . rescue your relationship.
Never cheat on your spouse. Do not become a cheating husband.
Instead, pursue relationship rescue.
Have a heart-to-heart talk with your mate. Identify the problem areas and the root cause.
And deal with them decisively.
Let all your affairs be guided by love. And as the bible says, "Love covers a multitude of
sins".
So, forgive your partner. Pardon her. Love her. Overlook her errors.
Someday you will need her understanding and forgiveness too.
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