School Girl - Should You Start A Relationship With A College Girl?

A school girl is young and active. A college girl is fresh blood. She is hot but full of youthful exuberance. Should you settle for a school girl or someone more mature?

A mature girl understands much about the elements that make a relationship work. When girls grow older, their value system goes full cycle.

For example, a mature girl manages money better. She is more future oriented and plans for the long-haul. She has had some experience with men. The fluff is over. She is ready to settle down with just one man and start a family.

Depending on family finances, a girl that has reached maturity may also be a working girl. Therefore she has seen life. Her experience at her office with her boss and colleagues leaves an impression on her and shapes her plans and goals.

If she is a working woman, it is also likely that she has finished school. If that is the case, she understands that having a certificate is not a guarantee of a good job. She also understands the challenge of earning a living and is more likely to treat money with some respect.

A school girl, on the other hand, is more liberal. She is less inclined to settle down to marriage. Why should she when her who life stretches ahead of her?

A young school girl spends more probably because she does not yet understand how tough it is to make a living. She is less practical than a mature girl.

A school girl hardly understand the challenge of managing a home not to talk of the economics. She is more prone to jump to conclusions and less inclined to get "tied" to just one man when there are many men hovering round her.

What has all this got to do with building a lasting love relationship?

Everything.

A marriage based on unrealistic expectations usually becomes a huge burden as each party feels dissatisfied at getting less than what they bargained for. It's only a matter of time before they pack up the relationship.

To illustrate, consider the case of Tony.

Their love was burning like wild fire. But Tony was prepared to wait until she finished has schooling.

Five years passed quickly.

The college girl that was Shade soon became a Linguistic graduate. Tony was ecstatic. Soon they will be man and wife.

However, there was a small problem.

Shade met a younger man in school. This co-student was just two years older whereas Tony was nine years older than her.

Initially, it was just friendship. But as days became weeks, weeks became months and months became years, the likeness grew deeper and now it was a burning feeling.

She kept the feeling hidden for over a year but now she could not hide it anymore. She told Tony she was sorry but marriage was no longer possible. Her reason? He was too old for her. In fact, in her words, "he was old enough to be her father".

Imagine!

Thinking it over, you will realize Tony made a mistake.

A school girl thinks very differently from a graduate. A teenage girl who agrees to marry you today may not be so inclined to do so in five years.

The reason is simple. Teenage girls are still in the process of development. They are just beginning to come to terms with who they are. Consequently, their moods change pretty fast.

If a girl just pass the teenage years agrees to marry you today, don't bank on it tomorrow.

Tony made an honest mistake. Don't make the same mistake.

It's okay to marry a school girl or college girl just out of college if you love her enough. But be prepared for the challenges.