In a situation like this there is risk... The risk of losing a friend and gaining a love and possibly getting hurt. But in the end you need to ask youself, do you really want to let this pass you by? Maybe in a few years you get hurt but at least then you know and you won't have to wonder about it for the rest of your life.
Mar 07, 2008
Time by: Robert Bowling
Take your time. I know, its easier said than done. But if its meant to be, it will be time well spent. Remember, even if it feels like true love, soul mate love, just take it slow. Its hard, but incase its not true love, you won't be as hurt. If you need to talk , email me, stargateheroes@hotmail.com My name is Robert
Feb 14, 2008
Under a spell :) by: Olivia Lynne
Im in the same situation you are girl.
I met this guy at the beginning of the school year. We started talking about 2 monthes ago and everything about him and how he treats me is everything Ive ever wanted.
I still dont know what to do. I think Ive made the mistake of going into deep already. Hes different from any guy Ive ever dated and I could see him in my future in every way.
My advice to you would be to follow what your heart tells you. I know sometimes that can be difficult but you have to know what you want.
Know what he is intrested in, or what is he wanting you for. A serious relationship or sex.
Always make room for Jesus and grow in a relationship with him in a Godly way. Things only last for eternity through Jesus. Dont let the sin of lust go out of control. If you do, youll get confused between the difference of love and lust.
I wish you the best. Also, I am 16 and in the same situation so I can relate alot to what you said. Best of luck to you :) -Olivia Lynne
Jan 21, 2008
time by: Anonymous
I dont think you should give him your all because if he is not the one, you will be left with nothing. Just keep your guard up, its nice to have someone that is special to you, but does he really tell you how he really feels about you?
if its mutual its great but even with that, you never know only time can tell and you said you just met this guy get to know him a little more and dont rush into things.
Jan 21, 2008
time by: Anonymous
I dont think you should give him your all because if he is not the one, you will be left with nothing. Just keep your guard up, its nice to have someone that is special to you, but does he really tell you how he really feels about you?
if its mutual its great but even with that, you never know only time can tell and you said you just met this guy get to know him a little more and dont rush into things.
Jan 21, 2008
time by: Anonymous
I dont think you should give him your all because if he is not the one, you will be left with nothing. Just keep your guard up, its nice to have someone that is special to you, but does he really tell you how he really feels about you?
if its mutual its great but even with that, you never know only time can tell and you said you just met this guy get to know him a little more and dont rush into things.
Dec 22, 2007
try harder by: Anonymous
fall in some more, no risk no gain
Dec 19, 2007
Slow Down by: Anonymous
Take things slowly and don't get too wrapped up in your fantasies of how wonderful things will be in the future. He is not the end-all and be-all of men. You can save yourself a lot of trouble by not projecting too far into the future. Slow down, watch for signs along the road.
Nov 30, 2007
Why Do You Think You Will Be Hurt? by: Samson Itoje
Successful love relationships are those where the two people involved understand each other, treat each other with respect, and freely forgive each other.
From what you say, two of you are already this way. And he treats you just the way you like to be treated.
Besides, you have so much in common.
On the face of it, it sounds like your relationship is perfect.
So, why do you think you may be hurt in the future?
Perfect love relationships do not hurt. Or, could it be that it's not as perfect as you suggest?
Is there something that is not right about him that you're coping with? Is it that he sounds too good to be true?
Do you feel that he's hiding something?
I have a feeling that your fears about the future may be prompted by a hunch or some unconscious doubts.
Whatever the case, you're the best judge of your situation and the potentials of the relationship.
My advice is . . . look before you leap. Be sure of what you feel. And be sure of the man you're with.
If all is well, there's nothing stopping you from going ahead.
