True Love Advisor Newsletter, February 2008:

Separation - The Crime Of Living Apart

Involuntary separation or living apart occurs when a married couple lives in separate locations due to work, school, or some other circumstances.

For example, in many developing countries, a lot of people see traveling to developed countries as panacea for their financial predicament. And so, wives leave husbands and husbands leave wives, and travel to the UK, the US, and other western countries in search of a better life.
As they do, they promise to return home with a lot of goodies to make up for their absence.

Even within the same country, husbands and wives live apart because of . . .

the desire to earn a higher pay by working at some far away company with higher pay structure and

the desire to get a highly respected degree from a first rate university far from where the family lives

Unfortunately, despite all the promises made to keep the relationship intact during the period of intermittent separation, many marriages fail during this period.

The truth is . . . things are never the same again when a man and woman begin to live apart.

People get married because of the desire for companionship. That desire remains even after marriage. And it is that desire to have a friend around that often cause problems when a married couple live apart.
When a woman lives in a separate location from her husband, she gets lonely on certain occasions. Naturally, she feels the urge to speak to someone. She may go out or invite a friend over.

She starts with one friend, then another, and then another. And some of these new friends may be men who come to see how the family is doing and what they can do to help. This is also the time when an ex visits and revives partially forgotten memories that stir up old flames of lost love.

The same goes for the man.

In simple terms . . . when a husband and wife live apart, they open the doors for new people to walk into their lives. And slowly, but surely, they begin to disconnect with their partner and build new relationships. The bond that binds the couple together gets weakened and it falls apart with little pressure.

This happens in over 70% of cases.

Make no mistake about it. If you live apart from your husband or wife, you risk losing him or her to someone else. This has happened over and over again that it has become a fact of life.

Want to stay faithful to your partner? Want your love relationship to last forever?

Stick to your spouse. Be everything she desires. Put your relationship above everything else, except God. Your love relationship will prosper.

Whatever it is you're pursuing that is causing you to live apart from you mate and your children, reconsider it.

Is it really worth it in the long run? Can you really replace your children and your wife if you lose them?

The choice is yours to make.

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