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Sex Before Marriage - The Emotional Challenge

Sex before marriage has emotional implications. Should you go ahead and have sex or should you wait until you're married?

This is one question that has been asked again and again. The thought of having sex is often more exciting than sex itself.

Youths are especially vulnerable when it comes to allowing romantic attachment to graduate too early into sex. However, most adults are just as gullible.

The truth is this . . . when you're in love, you tend to get carried away.

The rush of the emotions, the excitement, the exhilarating feelings . . . all combine and transport you to another planet. In the euphoria of it all, you ask yourself, "why not? We will still do it anyway when we're married. We may as well do it now since we love each other".

That is a big mistake especially for the woman in the relationship. Being married is not the same thing as being engaged. For starters, it's easy to break an engagement whereas a marriage is expensive to break.

Besides, a marriage is expensive to execute.

In my country, a modest marriage ceremony will cost the couple about $4,300 USD to execute. No average man will spend that amount of money on a relationship with a woman unless there's some level of commitment to that woman. And in many countries, a divorce is even more expensive to execute.

What's the point?

1. Being married is far far greater than being engaged or being involved in a live-in relationship

2. Being married secures more commitment and

3. Suspending sex until you're married gives you both something to look forward to

There's another major reason why women should not give in to premarital sex.

The reason is simple and it is this:

A. You win the respect and trust of your potential mate when you insist on sex after marriage

B. If for any reason the relationship does not work out and hence, you no longer get married, you leave with your pride and

C. If your current boyfriend/fiance runs into or stumbles on your ex, he has no reason to feel jealous or suspicious because he knows from experiece you don't sleep around . . . not even with him whom you love so dearly

Premarital sex is detrimental to a woman's pride and her well-being. It creates huge emotional challenge that many women find difficult to overcome especially when a breakup happens thereafter.

A guy may promise to marry you, take you out, sleep with you, then give a flimsy excuse to dump you. It happens. It has happened before, it will happen again.

When a man dumps a girl, the girl often feels terribly humiliated and cheated/used if she has had series of sex encounters with him. If she leaves the relationship as a virgin, she leaves with her head held high.

Dear ladies . . .

it is in your best interest to keep your lover waiting and dreaming about sex with you after you're married than to succumb to flirtatious petting that eventually lead to premarital sex.

Think about it.

Why is diamond so expensive?

Simple answer . . . because it is hard to find. You have to dig and dig and dig before you find it. That is why diamonds are expensive. And that is why diamonds are forever.

Be a diamond. Be hard to find. And you will become expensive. Then your relationship just might last forever.

Take my advice.

Save sex for marriage. It pays.