She ignores me, should I call and ask the reason or apologize for anything that I May Have Done Wrong?
I know this girl for a month, we have been texting for couple of weeks and met for a dinner, we totally enjoyed and I know she liked me.
We met again in her house(she lives alone). When I went to her home - bought a bouquet and took a comedian show dvd (Russell peters), which she didn't like since it had some R rated jokes and I kept saying "if you dont like we can watch something else" but we just watched. Then we watched a movie, that was good.
Nothing happened and I returned home (Think that is the biggest mistake??).
From next day she stopped texting me (she used to text me every day morning and during the day), no reply for my text either. She just called for my text at night and We planned to meet this Friday for dinner.
I dont know what the problem is so should I call her to see why the change n apologize for the show and tell her that I wanted to take the next step?
But I am not really sure that is the reason so can I ask her about the problem or just give her some space for a day or two? But I am totally going crazy not knowing what the reason is. Feels like she is ignoring me. Any help is really appreciated, totally confused.
I called her last night, left a vm just to make sure everything is ok with her but she didn’t return the call. Is this a sign that she don’t wanna talk to me anymore??
I wanted to make the move when I was at her home but thought she might think bad, Should I just tell or email her that?? so she’ll know what I feel??
Any help is really appreciated.
Reply By Samson, True Love Advisor
Your girl is the only one who can tell you what you have done to offend her.
So the best thing to do is to ask her what the problem is.
If she's not forthcoming, you can send her a text message saying something like, "Ï am sure I have offended you somehow. I am truly sorry. Can we talk about this?"
She may ignore your text message for awhile or she may call you immediately.
Whatever the case, things always turn out good when you apologize upfront.