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She Recently Broke Up. She Told Me To Give Her Some Time.

Hi. I'm immensely in love with a girl. It's been three years I love her. But she was with another one.

She recently broke up in December last year. She said she suffered a lot. I understand her.

It's been 2 weeks since I proposed her. She told me to give her sometime. She also said that she does not assure me that her answer will be yes.

She what should I do? Wait, though in vain?

Well, I can wait. I'm not in a hurry anyway. But when you're immensely in love u can't wait.

My Reply

Hi.

Love is a beautiful thing. I'm happy for you that you've found a girl you love.

You said she just broke up with her former love.

Well, you must understand that this is a difficult time for her. She's going through a lot right now.

Naturally, she will be scared of loving again. She certainly doesn't want to suffer another heartbreak. Therefore its expected that she will be extra careful this time.

How should you handle this?

Be patient. Show that you're different.

How?

1. Help her recover

2. Do not try to always get your way

3. Listen to her even though sometimes she may be too hurt to be 100% rational

4. Provide her a shoulder to lean on

5. Be a true friend

Gradually, she will begin to realize you're not like her ex. She will begin to trust you.

Trust leads to friendship, friendship to admiration, admiration to love.

But this takes time especially for a girl who's been jilted once.

You said you already proposed. Obviously, she didn't reject your proposal. This suggests that she's not opposed to the relationship. So you have a chance here.

She told you to be patient?

Well, that's exactly what you should do.

If you handle this right, you stand a good chance of winning the heart of the woman you love.

I wish you the best.

Regards,

Samson Itoje

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