It sounds cliche, but if your boyfriend truly cares and respects you, he won't be 'hurt' by your decision. Again, sounding much too cliche here: You're both young and it's only been 6 months. Make sure you thoroughly think out you decision. It's better to wait it out than to go through and regret it afterwards.
I lost my virginity at 18 after a few years with my boyfriend, and now that I'm in my 20's, I sometimes look back and regret I didn't wait longer.
It's YOUR decision. Don't let anyone even put the slightest pressure on you to give it away. Your virginity is one of the most precious things you have and can give away only once. Make sure it's on YOUR terms completely, not just to "prove your love" to someone or becauase you feel pressure to.
Mar 07, 2008 Rating
Why Lose Your Virginity? by: Samson Itoje
Why lose your virginity when you can keep it? Why disappoint God when you have promised to uphold his chastity and be a source of pride to him?
You said, "I don't want to hurt my boyfriend with your decision" . . . would you rather hurt God?
Already you have gone too far. You said, "instead of just kissing, I let him do more". Sounds like you've already broke your virginity.
Whatever the case, remember this:
Sex is a momentary excitement. You're anxious to try it. But after you've done it, you will feel burdened for years to come.
Please don't unless you're married.
Being a virgin is a status you don't want to lose . . . not for your boyfriend, not for all the gold in the world.
What should you do?
Keep your distance. Stop the hugging and the kissing and the fondling.
It's in your best interest. And you will make God happy too.
