Should I Keep My Virginity or Lose It

by Anisha
(Lansing)

I am debating if I should keep my virginity or lose it to someone I love.

I have been with my boyfriend for six months now. We have gone from level to level in our relationship. Now we love each other.

We created a good foundation before we started getting serious. Im sixteen & a junior and he's seventeen, a senior.

Now, I haven't ever been in a real love relatonship until i met him. He loves me, and i know its for real by his actions, because actions speak louder than words.

I havent ever felt this way for any boy in my life. I'm a passionate person, so i love to kiss, hug and all that, but im still a virgin.

Since we started saying and realizing that we loved each other, our times together have gotten more heated. Now instead of just kissing, I let him do more, like feel on me more, but at the same time, I don't want to go too far.

Now my boyfriend is not a virgin and i am the first girl that he's actually cared for who is a virgin.

So that makes me even more attractive to him and for him to think about me sexually. I feel torn because i love him and i want to have sex with him, but at the same time I don't want to risk my future, or feel burdened about it afterwards.

My boyfriend is the type that i would not ever REGRET losing my virginity to, but i don't want to break my vow I made to God before i had all these feelings.

I dont want to make the wrong choice and sacrifice my happiness. I have told him that I want to stay a virgin no matter what, but he's luring me more and more by everything now.

I dont want to hurt him with my decision, but i want him sexually at the same time.

What should I do?