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True Love Advisor Newsletter June 2008:

Should You Break Up? Should You Leave Or Stay?

Should you break up with your partner? Should you leave or stay?

That is the question lovers ask me the most. The people who ask this question are in a love relationship. The love relationship started on a good note with plenty "I love you" said either way. And the relationship felt like it was going to last forever.

Unfortunately, sometime down the road, problems arise . . . problems that challenge the parties in the love relationship.

You didn't bargain for this. No, you didn't.

Okay, you did - at least to some extent. You have always known there's no such thing as a perfect relationship. You were aware there could be rough terrain along the way. But you didn't think it will be this tough.

Heck! It's too tough!

The easiest thing to do?

Throw in the towel and find someone new.

For the majority who rush out of a love relationship, they spend a large part of their future ruminating on what they use to have. Even while with their new love, they dream about the good old days with their ex-lover.

Well, it's too late. You can only dream. Someone else has found him and held him tighter than tight.

To avoid experiencing this 'retraction effect', think through your decision to quit the love relationship thoroughly. Think, think, and think before you leap.

What often leads to break up?

The number one reason is . . . infidelity.

Extra marital love relationship by one of the partners in a marriage can quickly lead to ill-feeling, distrust, and break up.

Another reason for break up is dishonesty or lying. If your partner finds you've been lying to him all along with respect to certain matters, he may wonder if everything else about you and the love you claim to have for him is also a lie. Falsehood can easily tear a relationship apart.

A third reason for break up is . . . physical, mental, or emotional abuse.

Nobody likes to be treated like dirt. We all want to be respected and treated with kind consideration. If you're fond of abusing your partner or talking down at her, sooner or later, she will desire freedom from your oppressive domination more than anything in the world.