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Honestly, it is difficult to forget someone you've spent years loving in a hurry. So if you find you're still in love with him and can't get yourself to forget him, don't despair. Is there harm in not forgetting? Yes and No. It depends on your reason for remembering. If you remember the good times you shared together as proof that love is possible, it could serve as a healing balm. |
If also you remember your mistakes in the love relationship to be sure you don't make the same mistake over again, it's also a good sign.
However, if remembering brings you tears and a desire to stop living, then it's a negative feeling that you must deal with decisively.
Love is a wonderful emotion. It's a deep-seated emotion that comes from the depth of your soul.
So when things don't work out between you and your love, it's pretty devastating.
Nevertheless, know that you can recover.
As a matter of fact, the fact that you're still in love with him despite the failed relationship shows you have a good heart. It means you can love again.
So, don't hurt yourself any further.
Remember, that some disappointments can turn out to be a blessing. The failed love relationship opens up an opportunity to find someone new . . . someone better. He's gone, right? Well, cheer up. Visit a public place, say, a restaurant or some eatery. Take a lone table. Buy yourself a drink. Relax and sip. |
Then turn around and survey your surroundings. You will find that someone is staring at you and wondering why this angel, you, is sitting all by herself.
Someone is interested in love!
Hey, cheer up. There are men dying to find someone like you. So, if your first love or even your present lover does not appreciate you, someone else will.
If you have already broken up, fine. He does not deserve you anyway.
So what should you do if you find you're still in love?
Don't sweat it.
He's worth something, he's worth remembering that's why you remember.
Soon when the right man comes along and you fall in love again, you will remember him less often.
In summary . . .
Please don't kill yourself. And don't be a living dead. Enjoy life.
If you're still in love with him, enjoy the feeling but don't live in a dream world. Remember him, but accept that he's gone.
Work at becoming a better person, a better lover. Be cautious when you fall in love again.
Above all, don't be afraid to fall in love again. Love is wonderful. The world will be a mess without it.
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