Sweet Temptation - The Temptation of Another Woman. So Sweet
But So Deadly.

Your desire for her may actually be fired by her flirty behavior. She may be giving you more attention than is necessary between workmates, schoolmates, or neighbors.

This is sweet temptation because she may be sexy, inviting, adorable. A small part of you may be tempted to explore. You may kid yourself that . . .

Yes, it is sweet temptation because a part of you desire the attention. Perhaps your wife isn't even giving you as much attention. So, this looks like a great offer.

Does this happen in real life or am I just making this up?

Of course, it's real. This is real temptation faced by real people like you.

Here's a classic example.

A woman wrote me some months back about a problem she had with her husband. Read her exact words below.

She wrote:

"I have somewhat of a complicated question/dilemma, I actually have been married a whopping 26 years! Isn't that great?

Recently I have discovered I am missing a big portion of my happiness in my marriage. My husband is a good man (mind you) and I do actually love him, but I have some huge issues going on at 51 years of age. I consider myself very nice looking and my husband has begun to act like an 80 year old man!!!

He doesn't want to do anything with me (wants to stay home all the time and he is also becoming very sexually boring!! I have recently found a great job (I love) and it's wonderful.

I have found a wonderful transformation going on in my life. Men pay a lot of attention to me at work.! I love it and in fact I have found men literally getting jealous and sort of fighting over me (and I am a married women).

My problem is I actually love the attention!! My husband ignores me so much and I crave all this attention I am getting. I do love him but how to I get it across it to him that he is in big danger of losing me because of his apathetic behavior concerning our sexual relationship?"

This is a clear and concise case of sweet temptation.

I hope you understand her dilemma.

This is sweet temptation!

Should she give in to the temptation or should she resist and stay loyal to her husband?

Perhaps I should tell you this.

Sweet temptation is sweet while it remains a temptation. When you let yourself go and succumb to the temptation, it becomes bitter temptation.

Why bitter temptation?

My advice?

When you're tempted by that sweet beautiful adorable tantalizing girl next door, think of the consequences.

That sweet temptation will eventually become bitter temptation.

Your wife (or husband) will eventually find out. And she may not be able to trust you again. Thereafter, terrible things will happen to you in quick succession.

It pays to be committed and loyal to your wife. The cost of cheating on your wife is too high.

Loyalty gives you joy, peace of mind, a clear conscience, freeness of speech . . . and more . . . much more.

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