Teen Girl - A Teenage Girl Mistake

A teen girl often thinks she knows it all.

A teenage girl has come of age. She thinks she's now a woman and should be allowed the same freedom as her mother's. She wants to be free to do her own thing her own way.

She wants to enjoy life. She wants to be independent. She wants to be treated as an adult and no longer as a child. Cool. But there are risks. What risks? Well, basically, a teen girl wants to be recognized as an adult. And adulthood comes with responsibilities.

Unfortunately, many teens who desire freedom from parental control are not prepared for the responsibilities of adulthood. Therefore, they are not aware of the huge risk involved in doing some of the stuff adults do.

What stuff do adults do?

Specifically, with respect to love relationships, adults fall in love. Adults have sexual feelings. Adults have sexual intercourse. Sexual intercourse sometimes results in pregnancy.

Adult pregnant women seek anti-netal treatment. They have babies. They nurse their babies. They send them to school. They pay bills for all of the things they have to do for themselves and their kids.

Adult women have to manage a home. They manage their husbands, their children, and their health.

A teen girl often sees only the love and romantic part of relationships not the responsibilities part.

A teenage girl is young and active. She's sexy and beautiful. The boys shower her with praises. She gets gifts from all kinds of admirers. She feels like she's on top of the world.

She's invited to parties. If she's beautiful, she gets more than her fair of attention.

A teen girl has graduated from being just a girl. She is now a woman. She now goes through a menstrual cycle like all adult women within the age bracket.

With menstruation comes sexual desire. The desire to belong. The desire to have male attention. The desire to be held. The desire for a kiss. The desire for romance. The desire for sexual intimacy.

Most parents are uncomfortable discussing much of the above topics with their teen girls. No big deal. These girls will learn about such stuff from their friends in school, from TV, movies, or the internet.

Unfortunately, these sources often show teens necking, kissing, and making love. These sources of information tacitly tell teenage girls that it's okay to have romance and sexual intercourse. Of course, ninety percent of the time these sources never mention the consequences of teen girls doing what adults do. The result?

High rate of teen pregnancy.

If you're a teen girl or a teenage girl, this advice is for you.

Do not get involved with sexual activity. It is risky. It is expensive.

What is the result of sexual promiscuity?

1. Unwanted pregnancy

2. Possible death for teen girls who try abortion

3. Risk of contacting sexually transmitted diseases (STD)

4. Loss of virginity and self-respect

Everything has its time and season.

There is a time for submitting to parental control. This is especially important when you're still a teenage girl and largely inexperienced.

There is also a time and season for romance and sexual intercourse. This is when you're mature and ready to settle down. Not when you're still a teen girl.

There's a time for love relationship, family, and children. Don't get involved with this when you're still a teen.

Enjoy your teen years. Study hard. Get a degree. Learn a vocation. Be good at your chosen career. Listen to your parents.

There's plenty of time later for romance, necking, kissing, sex.

It's not now when you're a teen girl. You will only hurt yourself and take on adult responsibilities you're not trained for.

Be wise. Stay a virgin until you're grown up and married. You will be happier.

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