The man I used to be in love with, is saying that he has feelings for me now.

by K
(USA)

I met this guy when I was about six months pregnant with my first child. He was the manager of the apartments that I was looking at, and it was all over the first time I laid eyes on him.

I ended up getting the apartment, and he and I became very close friends. My husband and I were no longer, and he really had nothing to do with me during my pregnancy with our daughter.

Well, I fell in love with my neighbor. I thought I knew love, until I met him. I have never loved someone as much as I loved him. It was different with him.

We had so much fun together, and were with each other almost every day. When I went into labor, he drove me to the hospital, and was there for the birth of my daughter. He cried when she was born, and it was so amazing to see this man cry for a child that wasn't even his.

Anyway, after my daughter was born, we took our relationship to a more intimate level, however never slept together. I thought he was feeling the same way for me. He ended up moving to a different state.

The day he left I wrote him a letter expressing my love for him. When he got there he wanted me to move out there. That never happened.

We would talk on and off, and he would tell me about his new relationships, and I had to just pretend that it didn't hurt me.

I finally had to break off our friendship for my own sanity, and had to end putting myself in this hard situation. We lost contact for over a year, and I now have a boyfriend.

I have been with him for over a year and we live together. We have been having issues in our relationship due to his excessive gaming. He is willing to throw our relationship out the window for this game.

The guy that moved away contacted me again. I was just friendly with him because I felt like I could finally be "just friends" with him due to me being in a relationship now.

He still lives in another state, and the conversations have always been friendly. He would say things to me like how much fun we had together, and how he wishes he could meet a girl like me, that fits him as well as I do.

Today, he contacted me to tell me he was driving here to visit, and wants to hang out with me. I said , yes, and he then said some really sweet things to me.

I told him he was such a nice guy and that he made my heart happy, and he then told me that I did the same for him, and that I didn't even know.

I was so shocked by what he was saying to me! I couldn't believe it! I still love this man! I have never known love like this ever in my life.

The thing is, it was never mutual. I always wanted more, and he didn't. Now three years later, he's saying he has feelings for me!

I moved on with my life, and dated a lot. I am now in this relationship, that doesn't seem to be progressing, and I am not happy in, and now the man that I have loved all this time is telling me that he has feelings for me now!

I am aprehensive because a part of me thinks he just wants me now because he can't have me. I DON'T KNOW!!! ARGGGH!

WHAT DO I DO?????