The worst/ Best breakup has left me stranded and confused.
by Dakota
My boyfriend and I (both 16) broke up 2 days ago after 6 months. It was somewhat mutual. We decided to meet and talk it out.
He said his perspective on love changed, and he didn't love me like he did before. I said that I've been waiting 2 months for one of us to say it because I don't feel like I'm in a relationship with him either.
Though I think I felt it, deep inside, I wished he had worked harder in the relationship. We agreed to look back and smile at our time together.
He said that if we meet when we're 20 and fall in love, we'd be alot more experienced and make this work. And we had one last kiss. Which turned into making out ... and at one point he looked me in the eyes and went "I'm really gonna miss you" and I said the same in response.
Just as we were leaving, he tells me "You never know, we might be back together in a month, and THEN we'd know that this is true love"
That's messed me up.
Now I'm looking back at all the great times we had and missing them terribly. I wish he was still with me, and what he said has put some hope in me. But it looks like he's moved on... the day after we broke up, he went to the movies with these 2 slutty 13 year olds.
He's changed his style, his hair, his clothes in the last 2 months we were together, and getting more looks from girls, so I suppose that the real reason for the breakup was that he wants to get into the open field, so he can have fun flirting, which he didn't get to before (he's not exactly amazingly good looking).
What do I do now? Move on? Stay a while? Hope he'll realize he's flirting with 13 year olds and come back to me?
Thanks