This guy

by Pamela Rojas
(St. Paul, Minnesota)

I met him in December and he has come to my home like twice a month. It is little but I enjoyed seeing him play with my 11 year old daughter, eat, smile.

He dissappeared for 1 1/2 month . He told me last night lots of problems like his daughter moving in with him, now pregnant cannot decide to do abortion and she is 25.

I am 47. I can't believe he started flirting with me a week ago by e-mailing me he is stressed, lonely and thinking about us. We then saw him at the Bank.

Came last night, stayed with me, I call him at home to talk on hte phone and he never answers!!

He never invites me to his home. I asked him if his daughter would not like a foreigner hispanic and he said No. Why can't he include me in his house, invite me to eat, call back?

I hate this for doing it again after a period of almost 2 months. I was trying to forget him and then I saw him and feel so much into the protecting mood.

Please help me get over this anger with myself and how to see who he really is and WHY?

Pamela