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True Love Is Endless Love. It Lasts Forever. You Too Can Find It

"True love is timeless. True love is endless. It turns your life around. It makes you the happiest person alive!"

Some people are likely to be skeptical about this. They do not believe there is such thing as endless love. If you are one of them, you have your reasons.

I understand your skepticism. Divorce rate is so high today that many conclude that love relationship is simply a waste of time . . . another avoidable stress. You can't blame them.

Many relationships that start so well with love, excitement and enthusiasm crash so fast that you begin to wonder whether all the euphoria was worth it.

Divorce rate is high . . . yes. But I still believe that there is such thing as true love and that true love is endless. Why?

It's not because I'm a dogmatic believer. Far from it. It's because . . .

I'm immersed in true love. I experience genuine love everyday.

My parents have been in love and happily married for 39 years. No fighting, no squibbles. And their love gets stronger everyday.

I know people who have been in love longer than even my parents . . . and are still in love.

Is endless love real?

Ye-e-e-e-e-e-ssssh!

The good news is . . . you too can find true love. You can find endless love . . . love that lasts forever.

But how?

That is the big question. Let's discuss the foundation of true love.

The Foundation of Everlasting Love

"The difference between love that fails and endless love (love that lasts forever) is . . . the foundation".

It is common knowledge that a house built on poor foundation will eventually fail no matter how stable it looks on the outside. The same is true of your love relationship.

Your love relationship will eventually fail if it is not based on objective realistic foundation. It will fail if it is built on a sandy foundation.

True love never fails. False love fails . . . it has always failed and it will always fail - just as a house built on sand fails.

So, what constitutes sandy foundation?

False love is built on sandy foundation. The foundation of your love is sandy if it is based solely on . . .

Physical attraction

Physique

Romance

Sex

Tribe, race, language or color

Money

Entertainment and parties

Family reputation or family acceptance

All of the above are appealing but not sufficient to sustain long-term happiness and family unity. If a relationship is built on features that are not long-term, the relationship itself cannot be long-term. It is sandy foundation.

True love is built on solid foundation. Here's what constitutes solid foundation.

Trust

Commitment

Love

Shared values

Selflessness

Consideration

humility

Kindness

Goodness

Self control

Mildness of spirit

Family values

mutual understanding

Mutual respect

The list above is not exhaustive.

If you doubt what I say about everlasting love and the importance of solid foundation, look around your neighborhood. Take a second look at couples who have a strong enduring relationship.

Let's start.

Start with your parents. Are they in love? Can you call their love relationship true love? If it is, what in your opinion makes it true love? If it is not, what in your opinion makes it so?

Do a second analysis.

Do you think the love your parents have for one another can be called endless love? If it cannot, why can it not be called endless love? If you think their love will last forever, what are the essential ingredients that fuels the engine of endless love they have for each other?

Now move from your parents. Analyze your friends, your friends' parents, your neighbors etc.

What does your analysis reveal?

No doubt about it . . . true love is based on solid foundation. It is real. Endless love is real.

Now let's discuss how you too can find true love . . . endless love.

How You Can Find Endless Love

Doing the right things produces the right results. So, if you want to find true love . . . endless love . . . do the right things. Follow the right process.

It all starts with what you want. What do you want out of life?

I knew exactly what I wanted out of life. I just want to be happy always . . . married or single.

I am a happy person. I am full of joy. I do not have a dull moment. I deal with challenges head-on . . . I do not cry over spilled milk. I just move on.

So, when I started looking for a life partner . . . a wife . . . I searched for someone who was happy enough to share her happiness. A couple of days after I met my wife, I asked her my million dollar question.

"What is your greatest desire", I asked?

Without thinking, she said, "I want to be happy".

In reply I said, "I will make you happy".

Her desire to be happy matched mine. Two weeks into the relationship, I asked her to marry me. She gladly accepted.

My priority is to make my wife happy. I'm already a happy person. When my wife is happy, my own happiness is sustained. And that is realy what I want out of life.

Cool, right.

I hope my story tells you something.

Now back to the issue on ground. How do you find endless love?

I said it before. I will say it again . . . follow the right process. Decide what you really want out of life and pursue a love relationship that supports it.

Here's a four prong approach to help you.

1. Date the right person. It's difficult to analyze a love relationship objectively when you are neck-deep in it. So, don't go for trial dating. If he is not right, don't think you can make him right overnight. Use my dating tips for best results.

2. Do not hinge your love relationship on love making. Making love is exciting but it's not sufficient to keep a relationship together. The fact that your man is good in bed doesn't count when your happiness is at stake.

Talking seriously . . . do not go to bed with someone to whom you are not legally married. Call me old-fashioned. But the truth is . . . you throw away your dignity and limit your potential for future happiness.

3. Online dating has become pretty popular. Online dating sites are booming because of the ease of connecting with people and sometimes . . . complete anonymity. Should you search for Mr. Right online?

That is a personal decision. However, checkout my online dating advice using the link above.

4. True love waits. It is worth waiting for. Be patient. Take your time.

Do not rush in and then rush out. Your search for Mr. Right may take time. But when you finally find him, the joys will far outweigh the pains of waiting.

Everlasting love is beyond words. My wife and I wish you the best in your search for endless love. If you like, you can drop us a note using the feedback form on the left.

True love is timeless. It is exciting, mesmerizing.

My wife and I know because we swim in it everyday. Our one wish is that you too will find everlasting love just as we have.

"If you apply the love relationship advice on this site, you will find true love. And your life will never be the same again".

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