Ugly Woman or Pretty Woman - Whom Should You Settle Down With?

Ugly Woman or Pretty Woman - Whom Should You Settle Down With?

Ugly woman is simply ugly. Pretty woman is exciting and mesmerizing. She makes your day. Should you settle for an ugly woman or someone really pretty?

That is a question that bothers a lot of people. And there is no shortage of advisers.

However, I will tell you this.
The success of a relationship is not dependent on the physical appearance of the parties in the relationship. What makes a relationship succeed or fail depends on the attitudes and behaviors of the participants.

Love covers a multitude of frailties and weaknesses, even ugliness.

It is true that a beautiful woman is a joy to behold. I know because I'm married to one.

Just admiring my wife makes my day. She is tall, slim, spotless, and beautiful of form and of countenance. She is awe-inspiring and astonishing. She mesmerizes me. I was simply blown away from the very day I met her.

My wife has a stunning smile and a likeable personality. Her charm is overwhelming. Her unique perspective and thoughtfulness compliments her beauty.

Nevertheless, what makes my wife astounding is not her looks. It's her overall outlook on life, money, family, material things and her fear of God. She has true beauty . . . a perfect combination of beautiful skin and a beautiful heart.

It is true . . .

A pretty woman is appealing to the eyes. Just one look and she steals your heart away. An ugly woman, on the other hand, doesn't have outward beauty. If she is beautiful, her beauty is within.
What matters most? Outward beauty or inner beauty?
The truth is . . . outward beauty fades with age. Inner beauty lasts forever.

Hence, inner beauty is of most importance.

What constitutes inner beauty?

Inner beauty is a body of behaviors and attitudes that make a relationship heart-warming and blissful. This includes . . .

A good sense of humor

Mildness of spirit

Good sense of judgment

Thoughtfulness

Consideration

Good planning and forethought

Good house management skills

Cheerful spirit

Optimism

Faith (in her husband)

Trustworthiness

Tenderness

kindness and soothing spirit

Resourcefulness

. . . the list is endless.

An ugly woman (and indeed any woman) who possesses these attributes turn a house into a home. Her ugliness suddenly doesn't matter. What matters is the joy and radiance she brings to the home and to your life.

Should you settle for an ugly woman or a pretty woman?

The choice is yours.

But first, ask yourself. What do you really want out of the relationship? A home or a woman you can stare at all day for her beauty but who doesn't have a clue how to make you a happy man or how to manage a home?

If you find a pretty girl who also possesses inner beauty and is well-mannered and cultured, by all means go ahead. There is no harm in marrying a pretty woman. You can actually get the best of both worlds. I got just that with my wife.

However, do not settle down to a relationship and marriage with a woman just because she is pretty. Conversely, do not reject a sweet and lovely woman just because she is ugly woman or because she doesn't have the looks of a model.

At the end of the day, what matters is a woman's inner beauty. True beauty comes from within. It is a woman's behavior, attitudes, and resourcefulness that determines whether the relationship will last or crash.

Choose wisely.

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