Unresponsive Girl
by Sugam
(India)
Well, I stumbled upon your site through one of the search engines. Went through it and must say that you're doing excellent work.
Thought I might as well share my problem with you and the forums here and see if there could be a solution available.
I am studying at a medical school and shall be graduating as a doctor in about 6 months from now.
We have been here for the last 4 years and I gradually developed a liking for a girl in my class and this happened about 3 years back.
She is an Indian girl, a bit reserved, when it comes to talking to boys. Otherwise, she is good natured and jovial most of the time.
Now, my first mistake was that I ended up sharing my feelings for her with a friend from where it travelled through people and she heard of it and completely stopped talking to me.
Earlier, we just used to greet each other and that's it. But after she heard of this, she even stopped this.
Anyways, I didn't do anything about it then.
Tried talking to her once, but she always tries to avoid me or if she doesn't have an option, replies very dry, I mean, just replies in a yes or no.
About one year back, I wrote her an Email conveying my feelings. But She never responded.
Tried calling her up a month back to directly speak to her but she replied that she's not free and hung up.
Yes, she's in my class but I don't want to hold her up there and speak to her because it can create a scene and also, she might feel uncomfortable in my presence henceforth.
Now that there are only 6 months left for both of us to leave med school, I fear that I might lose her forever.
Moreover, I'm sure that I am not infatuated. It seems to be true love. Never fantasized about her. If asked what would I do if I get her. My answer would be that I just want to kiss her forehead and hold her in my arms. I'm ready to be selfless for her and perhaps that's why I've been waiting so long.
Please tell me what should I do?
Thanks a ton!
