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We Broke Up At The Beginning of High School

Hi. I'm 15 years old and I've been in love with this boy for 10 years. We fell in love in primary school and I think he may be the one.

Here's the thing.

We broke up at the beginning of high school and now we don't talk any more. But I still love him and want to be with him for the rest of my life.

How do I tell him this? Please help me, thank you.

My Reply

Find him. If you can't, get his number and call him.

Say something like, "Hi, Freddie. I really missed being with you. Can we meet sometime this weekend?"

If he accepts, book a date.

When you meet, it's better to start on a friendly note. It's better to start by clearing the air about what happened between you before so you understand how he feels about it.

This will help you plan your next move and decide on what approach is best.

Remember you broke up at the beginning of high school. There's sure to be some tension in the air. Dose that tension by soft-pedaling and apologizing.

Say something like, "I'm sorry about what happened between us. I hope you're not mad at me for leaving you. Please forgive me. I'm really really sorry for leaving".

This is a critical moment in your recovery of the love relationship you once had. Scale this hurdle and you can begin to rebuild what you had.

So, it's critical that you start with apology.

If you succeed in getting him to come back to you, you've done the first part of your job well.

The next step will be to build your friendship. Get to know each other well again.

You must understand that people change with time, new experiences, and new circumstances. Get to know him again and be sure he's still the man you want to spend the rest of your life with.

When you've built a strong bond and you're sure he's still the man for you, tell him how you feel.

Try this.

"Freddie, I have a confession to make".

That should catch his attention. When you have his full attention, you can say, "I love you very much. And I want to spend the rest of my life with you".

He's going to say or do something.

Whatever happens after you confess your love, do what's best.

Read the art of seduction. Apply the lessons.

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