What Women Want - The Secret To Winning Your Woman's Heart
What women want has been a subject of much debate among scholars and people of all
backgrounds. However, those debates have often been based on the individuals' perception
of what women want.
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It makes more sense for men to ask women what they want than to engage in endless debates
that lead them farther and farther away from the truth. Hence, to get the facts, I asked
my wife and my young single sister-in-law what woman want.
Both freely provided a list of what they want from a love relationship. Let's review this
list.
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Let's start with the list from a married woman . . . my wife.
The following is a list of what woman want from my wife's perspective.
A woman wants . . .
A man she can TRUST
A man who LOVES and CARES about her
A decisive man who is independent of his parents and takes responsibility for his
actions
A man who loves God
A man who RESPECT women
A man who has EMPATHY and FELLOW feeling
A man slow to anger. He weighs the pros and the cons before taking action.
A gentleman. A man well-behaved and respectful.
A man who is focused
A man who sets and pursues his targets with determination
A man who is family-oriented, who considers his family's interests above all else
The above is my wife's list of what women want. Below is my sister-in-law's list of what
women want.
A Woman want . . .
A man of INTEGRITY
A man who does not put her down in front of his friends
A man who has his wife beside him all the time
A man who sticks with his woman no matter the odds
A man full of surprises
A man with a good sense of humor, no dull moments
A man who takes her out and "spoil her a little" e.g. going shopping, visiting places
of interest etc.
A man who loves and adore her
A man who expresses his love in his kisses and hugs
There you have the list of what women want from the very lips of women. What do you think
of these two perspectives?
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The first list from a married woman . . . my wife . . . focuses more on virtues of love,
care, respect, empathy, fellow feeling, dogged determination, family spirit, and love of
God. Put simply, my wife, like most married women, value spiritual values more than physical
attributes.
My sister-in-law's list mentions a bit of spiritual values like love and integrity but then
tends heavily towards physical attributes like outing, shopping, sense of humor, kisses
and hugs.
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what is the difference?
Well, single people tend to place a lot of emphasis on their man's physique and other physical
attributes like looks and speech.
"He's a fluent speaker"
"He has good command of English"
"He's a graduate"
"He's a medical doctor"
"He kisses like Romeo"
"He has a good sense of humor"
You hear girls talk excitedly about their boyfriend in those terms. However, when they get
married, they realize that while those physical attributes adds beauty to a person's
appearance, more than appearance is needed to have a happy love relationship and marriage.
If you are a girl or woman reading this, be reminded that what makes a relationship last
forever are spiritual virtues like love, kindness, goodness, integrity, commitment, respect
etc.
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You will be making a huge mistake if you think what matters most is the size of the guys
bank account or his physique. Physical beauty is simply a bonus not the real thing.
So, if your man has the looks and form of a prize fighter with heavy build, cool. You're lucky.
But the relationship will not be worth it if he is also insolent and unruly. Be cautious.
You men reading this, here's a summary of what women want.
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What women want from men includes . . .
Love
Respect
Commitment
Integrity
Trust
Courage
Empathy and fellow feeling
Focus and dogged determination
Family spirit
Mild temper
Love of God and neighbor
A good sense of humor
Adoration
Forward thinking
Pleasant surprises
A man with potentials for great things
The list is by no means exhaustive.
If you want to win your woman's heart, if you want to win her love, do what women want as listed
above. When you do what woman want, you capture her heart and her love.
I wish you the best.
Find true love and make it stay by doing what woman want . . . what your woman want.
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