What's up with my ex-wife

by Andy
(California)

I'm 34 and my ex-wife is 41. My ex-wife is Korean.

We have been separated for 4 years and divorced for 1 year. We get along pretty well. We have a daughter, so I have to see my ex-wife often.

I'm still attracted to her but I know that we will never remarry or date each other again and probably shouldn't but I still feel kind of obsessed with her. I guess is the right word cuz I used to really love her.

She feels practically nothing for me now. She used to but she likes her new single life. She told me she doesn't want another man in her life and she says she isn't dating anyone.

Anyway, this is what I'm curious about. When we were dating 10 years ago and throughout our marriage, she never wore thong or string bikini style panties. I wanted her to if only just in the bedroom cuz it is a turn on for me cuz she is such a beautiful woman.

I'll send you a pic if you want. I finally got her to agree to some skimpy string bikini style panties, not thongs. The kind with the full back but the string sides.

However she only wore them on occasion in the bedroom and that was fine with me I loved her not her panties.

Now she told me she refused to wear thongs ever cuz she thought they looked uncomfortable and she as a korean woman didn't think it was proper to wear them. She has a korean friend the same age who wore them, but still that didn't convince her.

Ok, so that was then. flash forward to now. I noticed something weird.

Well, I visited her place to hang out with our daughter. She had many errands to run and she was out of the house. Anyway, I used the restroom where the clothes hamper was and the lid was open, so I looked inside and I noticed she had two pairs of the string bikini panties that we bought together a few years earlier.

I thought that was strange cuz she only wore those when I begged her to before sex as kind of a turn on.

I got very curious so I ventured into her bedroom and snooped around her drawers (bad invasion of privacy I know and I feel bad). I found her panties and they looked cute and fairly sexy but not daring at all just like I remember, but at the very bottom.... hidden underneath it all I found two pairs of tiny little T-Back panties. Thongs!

What the heck I thought. What's going on? My mind has been racing. In your honest opinion what do you think is happening?

If you just have no idea what is your best guess. I'm dying to figure this out.