Wife Swap - Is Wife Swapping Beneficial?
Wife swap sounds like a smart idea. It gives discontent men a chance to cheat and not feel guilty. They seem to have fun. But at what cost?
First, why would anyone in his right senses want to wife swap?
The truth is . . . many married men have roving eyes. They can't see a woman pass by and not take a second look. And they don't stop there. They take the next step and ask for a relationship.
Many flirting men who eventually get married still yearn for the loose living they had as bachelors. In no time, many start flirting again even as married men.
A man who want a taste of other women but feel guilty about cheating on his wife resort to play the game with his wife in the form of wife swapping.
Swapping partners is a compromise position that allows the wayward couple to satisfy inordinate desires while still playing husband and wife.
In a way, the partner sharing couple have some fun. They get to satisfy their sexual appetite and with whomever they fancy. Sounds like freedom, doesn't it?
The quest for such sexual freedom has fueled the wife swap game. Men usually lead this adventurous game. They just persuade the wife to play along. And if the wife is a wayward whore wife, she doesn't require much persuading.
So the fun is on. Once the man sights a married woman he fancies, he simply arranges for wife swapping. The same goes for the wife. They seem to be enjoying themselves!
How long will this fun last?
Not very long. And you can be absolutely sure of that.
Anything immoral, anything short of unalloyed commitment between a man and his wife does not last.
The reason is not far-fetched. We were created with monogamy in our genes. This means that irrespective of what your fleshly desires conjure up to justify having more than one partner, you will still want your partner to be devoted to just you.
This is getting interesting.
To understand this real life unavoidable and indisputable end, consider what happens when a flirting man discovers that his wife is also flirting.
The man gets really wild. He's so mad he could literally kill his wife.
But why? She was only imitating her husband's 'good' example.
You get the point.
So even though a man may be cheating on his wife, he expects and demands perfect commitment and allegiance from his wife. She must not cheat like him!
The same thing eventually happens when a man and his wife agree to mate swapping.
It is fun only for a short time.
Soon the couple involved will loose any sense of culture and discipline they previously had and have relations with just anyone. No need to wait to arrange partner swap anymore especially since many of the people they will soon be running into will be single.
This thing is like a snowball rolling down the hill. There is no stopping the desire once you let it lose.
It starts with wife swapping. Then you can't control the devil in you anymore. Every time you see a woman, married or unmarried, ugly or beautiful, the desire takes over and the rest is history.
The same goes for the wife.
Besides, it will get to a point when you may begin to feel your wife is having more partners than you. Why should she? Doesn't she know she is your wife? So you want to outsmart her.
In summary, the partner swapping business crumbles life as you now know it.
Bottom line. Anything immoral and ungodly eventually fails. The same goes with wife swap.
What is the cost of this venture?
It will cost you your dignity and your respect for your wife. It will destroy your mutual trust. Soon you will begin to see your wife as dirty and immoral.
Life will never be the same again between you and your wife. Your love for your wife . . . your partner in despoiling the marriage bed . . . will suddenly disappear.
Wife swap will destroy your marriage. The cost of this dastardly act far outweigh any benefits.
Stick to your wife and your wife alone. Develop the discipline to say NO to immoral inclinations. You will be forever happy.
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