True Love Advisor Newsletter - May 2008:

You An Expert? You Must Be Kidding.

"You, an expert? You must be kidding".

That is what folks with degree in psychology tell folks like you without a psychology degree. They look at you with disdain and wonder what you could possibly know about making a love relationship work.

What arrogance!

These 'know it all' psychologists put on airs and brag about being an expert in love. But wait. Take a good look at their love lives. Zero in on their love relationships. How many psychologists actually have successful marriages?
Your guess is as good as mine.
Obviously, there is a huge gap between theory and practice. And practice is what matters.

You, on the other hand, are different.

You do not have a degree in human psychology but you are happily married. And you've been happily married for decades.

You first met your partner in circumstances you never thought could lead to a love relationship. However, you liked her. And you managed the relationship so well that when you popped the million-dollar-question, your partner accepted the offer bubbling with excitement.

Things happened pretty fast from then on. Of course, there were times when you felt overwhelmed, but you never gave up.

You had a vision

You developed a plan to achieve your dreams

You implemented the plans

You finally achieved your dreams of getting married to this wonderful person

You have successful managed all conflicting issues with the skill and feel of an expert and

You now enjoy the fruit of your labour achieved through careful planning and forethought

You are a happy person . . . happily married and enjoying every moment of it.

Some others haven't been that successful. They have been disappointed several times by lovers who looked promising and promised to love them forever.
Eventually, they had to break up. And they have had to break up several times after the first time.
However, they have kept their comportment. They are cool, calm, collected. They know what they want and they are not prepared to settle for anything less.

Yes, they have had several breakups, but it's for the best. They realize that, many times, good things don't come easy and that persistence pays because failure happens when you stop trying.

So, they keep trying. And eventually they succeed.

They are like that school dropout who didn't give up on himself and who, because of his persistence and shrewdness, eventually became the world's richest man when he finally got his act together.

Through dogged determination, commitment to persistence, resilience, planning, dedication, consistency, and unwavering commitment to excellence in love and loving, you finally succeed at love.

Did someone say you're not an expert?

Forget them. I declare you an expert.

I declare you an expert if you know what it takes to make love work.

You are an expert!

What next?

I'm calling all experts, YOU, to come share their experience with people worldwide who have not been so blessed at love. I call it . . . VOICE OF EXPERIENCE.

Love can make you or kill you.

You don't believe me? Ask . . .

the woman who was beaten to death by her husband during a minor family squabble or

the lady who was shot through her nose by her over-possessive boyfriend because he suspected she was having an affair or

the man who was poisoned by his concubine so she can inherit the large sum he was paid when he was downsized

Believe me . . .

Love can make you or kill you.

You who have succeeded at love and loving, this is an opportunity to save a desparate soul. Share your experience at the VOICE OF EXPERIENCE forum.

Yes, you can indeed save a soul by providing sound counsel based on your years of experience in your love relationship.

Ready?

Click HERE to share your experience.

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